

I’ve Achieved My Dreams, But I’m Exhausted: What Now?
It’s ironic, isn’t it? Crafting a life on your own terms only to find yourself exhausted and lacking fulfilment. Interestingly, this is a problem many individuals face after diligently pursuing their desired path. The allure of autonomy and achievement often masks the toll it takes on our well-being. As someone who supports high performers and… Read More Read More

The Role of Forgiveness in Maintaining Healthy and Fulfilling Relationships
Have you ever struggled with forgiving someone who has wronged you? Welcome to #AskMadelaine, where we fearlessly explore the questions swirling in your mind about life, the world, and our very existence. Have a burning question for Madelaine? Share it with us at info@madelainevallin.com, using the subject line “Modern Visdom” (it’s not misspelled—it’s Swedish for… Read More Read More

The Problem with “Love Yourself First”: An Examination of Toxic Positivity
The frequently repeated mantra, “Love yourself first,” has become a staple in pop psychology and self-help circles. It’s plastered on motivational posters, echoed in social media posts, and recited by well-meaning friends and family. Yet, beneath its seemingly empowering veneer lies a problematic message that can be damaging, especially for individuals grappling with trauma and… Read More Read More